On the Right Path

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I saw something a few days ago that made me laugh so hard.  Not because it was just that funny (though it was hilarious).  But because I have been so busy working on my own life, my self, my love of self and more that unlike this thing I saw I didn’t have time to register them on my radar let alone have them so entrenched in my cerebral cortex that I hadn’t moved on with my life.  And it made me remember something I have been saying for a long time to my friends and family: when you are out there working on living (and in so doing living) your best life and learning to love yourself even more with each passing day, you will be too busy to worry about who or what you perceive has wronged you in your past.

You will sweat small petty things less. You will find less to start shit about. You will have less time to perpetuate bullshit. You will be so busy laughing, smiling, moving forward and growing as a person that when old bullshit comes to rear its ugly head you may shake your head for a hot second; but in the end you will laugh at how you may not have even been thinking about/sweating some things while those entities that are…are stuck in the muck and miserable still trying to disrupt you and your happiness.

Living (or trying to live) your best life doesn’t mean that your life is 100% orgasms and ice cream/rainbows and unicorns. It means you’re choosing to do things in life that make you feel good; enhance your overall mental and emotional well-being. You are choosing to remove as much negativity from your existence as possible. You are trying to live a life where you’re in higher spirits, smiling more for yourself and enjoying the little high moments that life can bring to you.

There will be bad times. We all have them. It’s unrealistic to believe that anyone’s journey will leave them without some level of battle scars, including ourselves. You will have those moments where new things (and even some old) will upset you. But once you’re on the path you’re no longer dwelling on things that have happened in your past. You will hopefully be able to work through the new challenges that upset you with a more clear head and clear vision. You are working through the lessons those experiences bring. You are pushing forward, knowing that you don’t have to have those things in your life that constantly bring you down; that you don’t have to react to or retaliate on old shit. That bitterness, that anger…it just breeds more of what you’re trying to remove from your life.

In essence, you living (or working on living) your best life is going to help cure that cancer of negative energy that will eat away at all the good things that can or should be happening to you. You will recognize and focus more on your blessings, no matter the form with which they are delivered to you. Once you are on the path, though you will have moments where you stumble, or lose your way but you will get back up; you will dust yourself off and you’ll find your way back to that path a lot faster than you did before.

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup

  • Hairbase: S.E CATWA MICHELE FNTY HAIRBASE DARK COLORS @ Skin Fair 2018 opening 03/09/2018
  • Eyelashes: LIVIA // Whisper Lashes @ Blush until 03/18/2018
  • Eyeshadow: LIVIA // Desire Eyeshadow @ Blush until 03/18/2018
  • Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* Catwa Lipstick ~ Cool Change
  • Nail Polish: LIVIA::Sweet Love Nails [Feb 2018 Group Gift]
  • All other body basics found here.

Other Information

  • Chair: *AR* – Armchair – Antara
  • Additional Lighting by Lumipro.

Sponsored items are in bold; promotional items have a plus sign (+) before the item.

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Primpin…

Today is my grandson’s wedding day. I’m very excited and want to make sure I look … just right. I don’t think I’ve ever beat this mug so hard.  But today I’ll be sure to be thorough…

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I think I got this makeup thing down! Just a little more and perrrrfect…yaaas!

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Ok…dress next.  Thank goodness I don’t do this makeup thing every day! Whooo!!  This is work!

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Lingerie: [Cynful] Coax Lingerie
    at Whore Couture 7 til 03/31/2017 [Event SLurl]
  • Earrings: EarthStones Laraine Jewelry Set – Diamond Platinum
    comes with a necklace
  • Necklace: [Cynful] Coax Necklace – Groupgift March 2017
    *group join is free

Body & Makeup

  • Hairbase: Just Magnetized – Basic Hairbase – LIMITED 01 for OMEGA
    old Limit 8 event purchase [website]
  • Nail Polish: {ZOZ} Raya Polish (M/V Duo)
    available at The Chapter Four [Event SLurl]
  • Basic Body Information can be found here: Basics

Background, Props & Lighting

  • Props: Invidah* Demorae Wardrobe [pure] (incl poses that give compact & puff)
    part of Invidah* Demorae Bedroom Set FAMILY
  • Drapes: Invidah* Demorae Bedroom Set FAMILY
  • Sink & Mirror: (part of) * AR * – 13L – Amelia vc

Windlight: Naminaeko Windlight Lake Lady Skin

Lighting by Lumipro.

Moving Day!

It’s moving day!

Moving Day

Leaving the lag behind to a sim w/ no clubs. Nothing against clubs, mind you. But when you’re trying to read a story to a 2-yr old and the sim lag’s got you moving slower than a constipated tortoise stuck in tar, I’m thinking it’s time to move! Soooo…we contacted our simlord and he was nice enough to relocate us!  I love customer service like that. So while I’m trying to get ready for my one-to-one meeting today with my sorority I hear the movers outside ready to take us to our new home!  Trying to grab my foster kid’s stuff though…I may have stubbed my toe.

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I didn’t know our foster kid had so much stuff!  But at least I can look good while tripping over her boxes right? LOL

Welp, the truck is loaded and it’s time to head on out to our new home with new adventures!  TTFN!

DEETS (2nd photo only for clothes)

Clothing & Accessories

  • Dress: .miss chelsea. Dion Dress Army [SLurl | MP]
  • Necklace & Bracelets: Izzie’s [SLurl | MP]
    Izzie’s – Exclusive Two Initial Charms Necklace
    Izzie’s – Two Initial Charms Bracelet RARE
    Izzie’s – Initial Bracelet CUFFS
    *The Initial Bracelets are at the Epiphany Gacha Event ONLY [Main Sim | Off Sim Shopping]
  • Earrings: EARRING HOOP-DE PLATINUM   -RYCA- [Marketplace]
  • Shoes: .:KC:. ANDRIA HEELS [SLurlMP]

Body & Makeup

  • Head: CATWA HEAD Catya [SLurl | MP]
  • Hairbase: Just Magnetized – Basic Hairbase – set 03 for CATWA [SLurl | MP]
  • Body & Feet: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara [SLurl | Not sold on MP]
  • Hands: -VA-F-VISTA BENTO PROHANDS FEM-V.1
    *Hands only available on MP; updates avail inworld after purchase [SLurl | MP]
  • Nail Polish: alaskametroSLurl | MP]
  • Shape, skin & eyes information: unavailable

Furniture & Props

  • House: Oceanic Designs – The Hillcrest Beige Mansion (Furnished) [MP Only]
  • Moving Van: Epique U-Haul Truck [MP Only]
  • Moving Boxes & For Sale Sign: -RC- New Home Moving Boxes [SLurl | MP]
  • Child’s Room: * AR * – 13L – Hannah [SLurl | MP]
  • Big White Bear in corner: unavailable

The Big Easy: First Taste

New Pose coming soon to KJIm Poses

“Adagio breezes fill my skin with sudden red.”

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“I do not struggle in your web. Because it was my aim to get caught.”

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“Full is not heavy as empty not nearly my love…not nearly…”

Blog inspired by:

DEETS

On Me

Clothing & Accessories

  • Dress: [Cynful] Wish Dress [SLurlMP-1/MP-2]
    available in separate colors & a fat pack (w/ bonus colors) @ Collabor88
  • Necklace: [Cynful] Wish Necklace [SLurlMP-1/MP-2]
    available in separate colors & a fat pack (w/ bonus colors) @ Collabor88
  • Earrings: :[P]:- Kore Earring (Part of the :[P]:- Kore Jewelry Set) [SLurl | MP]
  • Shoes: Pure Poison – Fabia Sandals [SLurl | MP]

Body & Makeup

  • Head: CATWA HEAD Tumble [SLurl | MP]
  • Hairbase: Just Magnetized – Basic Hairbase – LIMITED 01 for OMEGA [SLurl | MP]
    available @ Limit8 (sold out)
  • Body & Feet: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara [SLurl | Not sold on MP]
  • Hands: Slink AvEnhance Hands Female – Casual v2.4 [SLurl | MP]
  • Skin: DyVersatile Skins Nicole [SLurl | MP]
    uses Omega, Maitreya and Slink Appliers
  • Lipstick: !IT! – Liquid Lust Lipstick 4 [SLurl | MP]
  • Eyeshadow: ::SG:: SmokeGems Shadow for Catwa & Classic AV [SLurl | MP]
  • Nail Polish: {ZOZ} Memories Polish [SLurl | MP]
  • Shape, skin & eyes information: unavailable

On My Alt, Dexter St. Jacques Jenkins

Clothing & Accessories

  • Outfit: Vartan Outfit FashionNatic [SLurl | MP]
    comes with shirt, shoes and pants
  • Ring: :Fusion: Diamond Ring (Male) [MP Only]

Body

  • Body: Slink Physique Male Mesh Body  [SLurl | MP]
  • Hands: Slink AvEnhance Hands Male – Relax  [SLurl | MP]
  • Feet: Slink AvEnhance Feet Male Flat  [SLurl | MP]
  • Shape, skin & eyes information: unavailable

Furniture, Poses & Light Settings

  • Building: [ba] new orleans studio [SLurl | MP]
  • Table on Balcony:  Wine & Roses Table (part of the LAQ Decor ~ Clawfoot Bathtub & Shower (Silver + Bronze)) [SLurl | MP]
  • Sofa: *AR* – Sofa – Copenhagen 1.1 [SLurl | MP]
  • Fireplace: Kamin *Step inSide* (Fireplace) [MP Only]
  • Windlight: Nacon’s Natural Night
  • Lighting by Lumipro [SLurl | MP]
  • Pose: KJIm Poses – The First Taste (coming soon) [SLurl | MP]