Mix & Match

I love mixing and matching my makeup.  There’s so many talented makeup artists in SL that I can usually find a perfect combo with just about any of them! And then finding that ensemble that just brings it all to life makes it that much more fun! Today I matched the wonderful Slackgirl with Booty’s Beauty and damn if my lips (and eyes) don’t just jump off the page!

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The combo went perfectly with two of Cynful’s newest releases and those really cute sunflower sandals from Pure Poison.  Since I was waiting for what felt like forever for the photographer to arrive I figured I’d snap a quick selfie and play around with it.  Not bad if I do say so myself. 😉

❤ Miss Kilo

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Clothing & Accessories

  • Top: [Cynful] For the Crew Top for FameshedGO
  • Shorts: [Cynful] Sweet Cheeks Shorts @ Fameshed
  • Shoes: Pure Poison – Sunflower Platforms @ Collabor88
  • +Most of Jewelry on face: :: SAGA :: Verena Jewel Set Silver @ Kustom 9
    • Cartilage piercing – Little Star Earring
    • Earrings – Verena Earrings DUO
    • Septum – Verena Septum
    • Bindi – Little Star Bindi
    • Circle Nose Ring – Verena Nose Ring (has both left & right options)
  • Rings: (Yummy) Leave A Mark Set – Maitreya @ Collabor88
  • Arm Bands: [Cynful] Rendezvous Bracelet
  • Nose Ring: (Yummy) Cleopatra Nose Ring – Silver

Body & Makeup

  • Hairbase: S.E CATWA AISHA FNTY HAIRBASE DARK COLORS (former skin fair item)
  • Eye Shadow: ::SG:: Jamila Shadow (for Akeruka and Omega ONLY) @ On9
  • Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* Catwa Makeup ~ Abracadabra Hud
  • Nail Polish: LIVIA::Tranquil Nails [Slink/Omega/Mait/Vista/Tuty]

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Drinks by the Pool!

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Margaritas while hottubbing; what could be better? I’m sure I can think of something. Maybe I’ll find some Trouble to get into… *finds her phone and starts dialing* 😉

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Outfit: Sn@tch Spring Break Boho Bikinis (All Colors/Sizes)
  • + Earrings: :: SAGA :: Spring EarLoops w.HUD/Silver
  • Nose Ring: (Yummy) Cleopatra Nose Ring – Silver
  • Rings: (Yummy) Minimalist Rings – Maitreya @ N21
  • Armlets: –KC– HANEGI ARMLETS / MAITREYA, SLINK, BELLEZA, TONIC
  • Anklets: –KC– HANEGI ANKLETS / MAITREYA, SLINK, BELLEZA, TONIC

Body & Makeup

  • Hair: DOUX – Margaret hairstyle [Naturals]
  • Hairbase: SIIX// Russian Hairbase
  • Eyelashes: LIVIA // Lashes No.4-7 (Catwa/Lelutka) @ The Darkness
  • Eyeshadow: LIVIA // Sage Eyeliner @ The Makeover Room
  • Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* Catwa Lipstick ~ Paris
  • Nails: ::SG:: Felina Classic BENTO MESH NAILS (former On9 item)
  • All other body basics found here.

Other Details

  • Hot Tub: SAYO – Palisades Pool
  • Drinks: {what next} Palisades Cocktail Glasses Decor
  • Lighting: Lumipro

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Thinkin’ ‘Bout You

So I’m sitting here at my daughter’s house “helping” her decorate (read: drinking while she does all the work) and Frank Ocean’s “Thinking Bout You” popped in my head while I was talking to a friend.

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Damn, I hate it when I’m not even trying to think about certain folks and they just creep into that part of my cerebral cortex that makes me uncontrollably smile, stutter or makes my thoughts simply wander.  Yeah…y’all know what I’m talking about: THAT kind of person. Ok…let me get focused. *giggles* TTFN gang

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Shirt: NYU – My Boyfriend’s Shirt, Plain/White
  • Earrings: {HJ} Simplicity Diamond Stud Earrings
  • Nose Ring: (Yummy) Cleopatra Nose Ring – Silver

Body & Makeup

  • Hairbase: S.E CATWA AISHA FNTY HAIRBASE DARK COLORS @ Skin Fair 2018 (direct SLurl to booth)
  • Eyebrows: .KULA. Satin Eyebrow Collection @ Skin Fair 2018 (direct SLurl to booth)
  • Eye Shadow, Lashes & Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* Catwa Makeup ~ Thunder
  • Nails: #EMPIRE – Coffin Nails – Medium
  • Nail Polish: LIVIA // Galaxy Sparkle Nails @ Skin Fair 2018 (direct SLurl to booth)
  • Head: CATWA HEAD Catya V3.0
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
  • Skin: .Q. Saniyah -BrownSugar- Skin [Catwa,LeLutka,Genesis,Omega] @ Skin Fair 2018 (direct slurl to booth)

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On the Right Path

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I saw something a few days ago that made me laugh so hard.  Not because it was just that funny (though it was hilarious).  But because I have been so busy working on my own life, my self, my love of self and more that unlike this thing I saw I didn’t have time to register them on my radar let alone have them so entrenched in my cerebral cortex that I hadn’t moved on with my life.  And it made me remember something I have been saying for a long time to my friends and family: when you are out there working on living (and in so doing living) your best life and learning to love yourself even more with each passing day, you will be too busy to worry about who or what you perceive has wronged you in your past.

You will sweat small petty things less. You will find less to start shit about. You will have less time to perpetuate bullshit. You will be so busy laughing, smiling, moving forward and growing as a person that when old bullshit comes to rear its ugly head you may shake your head for a hot second; but in the end you will laugh at how you may not have even been thinking about/sweating some things while those entities that are…are stuck in the muck and miserable still trying to disrupt you and your happiness.

Living (or trying to live) your best life doesn’t mean that your life is 100% orgasms and ice cream/rainbows and unicorns. It means you’re choosing to do things in life that make you feel good; enhance your overall mental and emotional well-being. You are choosing to remove as much negativity from your existence as possible. You are trying to live a life where you’re in higher spirits, smiling more for yourself and enjoying the little high moments that life can bring to you.

There will be bad times. We all have them. It’s unrealistic to believe that anyone’s journey will leave them without some level of battle scars, including ourselves. You will have those moments where new things (and even some old) will upset you. But once you’re on the path you’re no longer dwelling on things that have happened in your past. You will hopefully be able to work through the new challenges that upset you with a more clear head and clear vision. You are working through the lessons those experiences bring. You are pushing forward, knowing that you don’t have to have those things in your life that constantly bring you down; that you don’t have to react to or retaliate on old shit. That bitterness, that anger…it just breeds more of what you’re trying to remove from your life.

In essence, you living (or working on living) your best life is going to help cure that cancer of negative energy that will eat away at all the good things that can or should be happening to you. You will recognize and focus more on your blessings, no matter the form with which they are delivered to you. Once you are on the path, though you will have moments where you stumble, or lose your way but you will get back up; you will dust yourself off and you’ll find your way back to that path a lot faster than you did before.

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup

  • Hairbase: S.E CATWA MICHELE FNTY HAIRBASE DARK COLORS @ Skin Fair 2018 opening 03/09/2018
  • Eyelashes: LIVIA // Whisper Lashes @ Blush until 03/18/2018
  • Eyeshadow: LIVIA // Desire Eyeshadow @ Blush until 03/18/2018
  • Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* Catwa Lipstick ~ Cool Change
  • Nail Polish: LIVIA::Sweet Love Nails [Feb 2018 Group Gift]
  • All other body basics found here.

Other Information

  • Chair: *AR* – Armchair – Antara
  • Additional Lighting by Lumipro.

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Saying Yes

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I am a people watcher. And in SL, I see more of what I saw IRL among the people here. A lot of us…we are all alike in many ways; especially in how we treat ourselves. It may manifest itself differently from person to person, but the base premise comes from the same place.  And while some revel in it and/or embrace it, some of us torture ourselves with it trying to find a way out…but not always succeeding. I often see so many of us say yes to the wrong things and the wrong people because of our inner struggles of saying yes to ourselves.

So many of us are so quick and able to give the most intimate parts of ourselves to others but then become incredibly stingy and hesitant to give those same gifts to ourselves.  Things like trust, awareness, time, affection, care, love, respect and validation; these are all things we tend to give in hopes of receiving them from others but are so quick to deny ourselves. We rationalize how if we have this person or that person or any person in our lives that we can only then be happy/feel complete/be whole.

But in the same vain, we’re also a people that will uplift and try to instill those same values in our friends who may be suffering as we are in hopes that they too don’t fall into that same pit we live in.  Not because we don’t want to be alone; but because we don’t always feel worthy of the things we give so freely to anyone else.

We say we don’t, but we do.  How do I know this? Because when a relationship of any kind (romantic/platonic/familial…you name it) ends, we always go down the list of all the things we did for that person, stating that they didn’t do the same for us. But do we ever stop and say, “maybe if I had recognized that I deserved all these things in the first place, I wouldn’t have allowed for this to happen to me?”  Probably not. And that’s where the say yes journey should begin.

And I don’t say this to sound like a jerk or bitter or anything that denotes anything other than reality.  We have to treat ourselves better. We have to look into ourselves and figure out who we are, what we want from ourselves and what we want FOR ourselves before we can inflict those expectations on someone else. We have to know who we are and what we really want so we know what we are willing to accept and put up with; what we truly deserve: happiness and fulfillment.  But it starts with looking at yourself honestly and starting to really strip away the layers to get to your inner emotional meatiness and then working on figuring out the rest.

I’ve been on this journey for a while now; learning more about who I am, what I like, what I don’t like, what I want, what I deserve and just what I’m willing to put up with in order to achieve it.  It’s been a hard journey and it gets lonely at times.  But by saying yes to myself, vowing to myself to view myself better and love myself better, I’ve been able to say yes to myself more instead of saying it to the wrong people, situations, ideas or things.

Just a little food for thought on this Wednesday afternoon.

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Top: Sn@tch Lala Crochet Tank Top
  • Jeans: .::Dead Dollz::. Violet Jeans Pearls (former Fifty Linden Friday item)
  • +Earrings: :: SAGA :: Dalia Earrings w.HUD
  • Ring: (Yummy) Diamond Solitaire Ring – Maitreya

Body & Makeup

Other Information

  • Chair: Trompe Loeil – Josette Settee PG (former Shop Your Heart Out gift)
  • Backdrop: anxiety %puddin (former Rewind item)

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