I Am…My Love

“[I love me]
Gonna Love Myself…
Anytime, Day or Night”
~ Hailee Steinfeld, Love Myself

I Am...My Love

To every love I’ve experienced who wrecked me. To every crush and liking that was unrequited. To every right I wronged and vice versa, thank you.  Each step has brought me to the place where I’m wildly aware of my quirks, my insecurities, my idiocyncracies and my identity.  And if nothing else, I’m choosing…me.  Always.

I am…my love. I am in love with myself and I am so glad that I am. And I have every right to choose myself as my love above all others.

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • Shirt: RIOT / Devyn Tanks – White
  • Earrings: e.marie // Aubrey Earrings – Silvers (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Daily Body Basics can be found here.
  • ☘ Hair: Unorthodox– 21Sav Locs @ Hair Fair 2021
  • Ear Paint: A.D.D.Andel! Pride Face & Ear Paint (Pride at Home Event item)
  • ☘ Eyebrows: Dotty’s Secret – Beauty Brows – Thin Set (former Skin Fair item)
  • Eyes: AG. Sensible Eyes / Powder Pack / Lelutka Evo X (May 2021 Powder Pack)
  • ☘ EyeShadow: *Booty’s Beauty* [Lelutka Evolution] Freyja Makeup
  • ☘ Lipstick: Dotty’s Secret – Lucid [REDS] – Matte Lipstick @ blanc. event (opening 06/28/2021)
  • ☘ Nail Polish #1 (featured on index finger, peace sign): Avada~ Stiletto Nails – Pride @ Tres Chic
  • ☘ Nail Polish #2 (all other nail colors): Avada~ Stiletto Nails – Classic Colors – Set 3

Background & Additional Information

  • Backdrop: Synnergy//Toronto Village City View Backdrop
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

The Sundae That is Me

The Sundae That is Me

We never know what life is going to bring us, or how it will mold us into who we eventually become. Barefaced, made up, I am simply me.

Born to Be...Me

I am a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman and I am very proud of this fact.

I could write a post about how I came to discover who I was, my sexuality and how I came out. But honestly, I shouldn’t have to. I was born to love all beings, no matter their gender, no matter how they identify. And in discovering who I was and how I loved others helped me learn a lot about myself and how to accept who I was.

Pride isn’t just about proclaiming your sexuality proudly and wearing it like a badge of honor. It’s owning who you are, how you live and embracing your entire self as a person.

It’s about loving your imperfections as well as the labels that both you and society place upon yourself.  And it is more than something to do during the month of June.

I am simply me, imperfections and all. And I’m so proud of that.

The fact that I’m a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman … just happens to be the sprinkles on the Sundae that is me.

Happy Pride Month everyone.  May you all love each other and yourselves.

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Jumpsuit: .Q. Irenic -FATPACK- [Freya,HG,Lara,eBody,Jessica,Kupra]
  • Earrings: e.marie // Aubrey Earrings – Silvers (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Rings: RAWR! Foxy Rings (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Daily Body Basics can be found here.
  • ☘ Skin: [LERONSO] CATWA HDPRO MajerEdged Skin “Eniola” – chocolate (former Beauty Event item)
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
  • Head: CATWA HDPRO Queen
  • Hairbase: NNTVE X TRES BEAU NAJA HAIRBASE (BLACKS)
  • Shape: KJIm: Tina Shape (coming soon)
  • Hair: no.match_ ~ NO_CLOSER ~ Pack of BLACKS
  • Eyebrows: LIVIA::Destiny Eyebrows [Genus/Catwa/Omega/System-BOM]
  • Eyes: AG. Luminous Eyes – Coffee
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: Dotty’s Secret – Pride Smokey Eye (Pride at Home Exclusive)
  • Lipstick: : Dernier : “Love” Pack (Gift – Free Group Join)
  • Nail Polish: KJIm: Pride Nails

Background & Additional Information

  • Pose: Homemade (unavailable)
  • Backdrop: The Bearded Guy – Listen This (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

Heyyyyyy…

Heyyyyyy...

Feeling cute. Might go try to flirt awkwardly and break a heart or two later. IDK

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Dress: Cynful Sparkle Dress @ Collabor88
  • Earrings: e.marie // Alexis Earrings – Silvers (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Necklace: ::Livido:: Phryne Choker /Collar- Gems July @ ☘ Gems by Unik
  • Shoes: N-core NAIRA “FatPack” (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • All regularly worn body basics detail can be found here.
  • Hair: DOUX – Bloodline hairstyle
  • ☘ Makeup: *Booty’s Beauty* [Lelutka Evolution] Ganymede HD Mini Kit (includes eye shadow, eyelashes & lipstick)

Background & Additional Information

  • Windlight: Swain – Chocolate Series 10
  • Pose: Self-made using AnyPose & LeLutka Axis (for face)
  • Neon Sign: floorplan. neon all you need is love
  • Backdrop: SAYO SCENES – Moderna Courtyard – COMMON
  • Chair: SAYO – Wynwood Suspension Chair – Floor (Pulse Exclusive – no longer available)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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Back in the Day…The Stoop

Sittin’ on the stoop in Bed-Stuy
Always sayin’ hi when the brothers walk by
Just got the etiquette, sittin’ on the top step
With a bag of chips, sit back, relax, enjoy the trip
~ Little Jackie, ‘The Stoop’

Back In the Day...The Stoop

So I’m sitting here on my front stoop, relaxing with my hot fries, eyes closed and reminiscing about my youth growing up in the hood and this song comes on the radio. And BAM…I’m back there again.

Now I’m not from New York (and thereby not from Bed-Stuy), but this song took me back! Like way back to my childhood, young!  No matter where we hung, be it houses, apartment buildings, front porches or the park  it was always all good. And yes…we were ALWAYS snackin’ on something!  Pickles, Hot Fries, Mike.and.Ikes…yaaaaaaas; that was childhood in the hood!  It was simple.  And we were just chillin’, waiting for our homies to be allowed to come outside and play.

I sit here now on my front stoop in the city watching the cars pass, pumping tunes on my radio and observing new tails of street corners, double-dutch and kids playing games running wild in the streets…at least til the street light comes on!  And I realize that I love this place; this time capsule town where even with all of modern technology luring our kids away from the fresh air…there is still a place for them to run free and be children, safe in their hood.

…It’s all good, it’s all good
Cause I love my hood, love my hood
~ Little Jackie, ‘The Stoop’

❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup

  • Hair: DOUX – Shy hairstyle [BASIC PACK]
  • Nail Polish: LIVIA::Elegant Wine Nails [Slink/Omega/Mait/Vista/Tuty]
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

Background & Additional Information

  • ☘ Snack: Junk Food – Handy Mann’s Hot Fries @ Man Cave Event
  • Backdrop: :.:PINK UNICORN::. / BACKDROP San Francisco (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Radio: {what next} Festival Radios – VIP Group Gift
  • Pose: Made using Anypose. No info available (deleted it right after lol)

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Out Tonight

“Let’s go out tonight
I have to go out tonight
~ Out Tonight, “Rent”

Out Tonight

The baby’s in bed as well as my toddler.  It is time for momma to let the overnight nanny watch over the babies so I can get my dance on! I wanna go ouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut tonight!

❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Jacket: [hh] Ryan Leather Jacket
  • Pants: Blueberry – Gracie – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Fat Pack
  • Rings: Kibitz – Sandrian rings – silver (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Earrings: e.marie // Tessa Earrings – Metals (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup

  • Hair: Vanity Hair::Labyrinth-All Blacks Pack
  • Hairbase: SIIX// Russian Hairbase
  • Eyeshadow: Veechi – Celebration Shadow (former Fifty Linden Friday item)
  • ☘ Lipstick: Avada~ Marlowe Lipstick (former Darkness Monthly item)
  • ☘ Nails: Avada~ Ballerina Nails – Ekanshi @ anyBODY
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

Background & Additional Information

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