The Sundae That is Me

The Sundae That is Me

We never know what life is going to bring us, or how it will mold us into who we eventually become. Barefaced, made up, I am simply me.

Born to Be...Me

I am a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman and I am very proud of this fact.

I could write a post about how I came to discover who I was, my sexuality and how I came out. But honestly, I shouldn’t have to. I was born to love all beings, no matter their gender, no matter how they identify. And in discovering who I was and how I loved others helped me learn a lot about myself and how to accept who I was.

Pride isn’t just about proclaiming your sexuality proudly and wearing it like a badge of honor. It’s owning who you are, how you live and embracing your entire self as a person.

It’s about loving your imperfections as well as the labels that both you and society place upon yourself.  And it is more than something to do during the month of June.

I am simply me, imperfections and all. And I’m so proud of that.

The fact that I’m a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman … just happens to be the sprinkles on the Sundae that is me.

Happy Pride Month everyone.  May you all love each other and yourselves.

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Jumpsuit: .Q. Irenic -FATPACK- [Freya,HG,Lara,eBody,Jessica,Kupra]
  • Earrings: e.marie // Aubrey Earrings – Silvers (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Rings: RAWR! Foxy Rings (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Daily Body Basics can be found here.
  • ☘ Skin: [LERONSO] CATWA HDPRO MajerEdged Skin “Eniola” – chocolate (former Beauty Event item)
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
  • Head: CATWA HDPRO Queen
  • Hairbase: NNTVE X TRES BEAU NAJA HAIRBASE (BLACKS)
  • Shape: KJIm: Tina Shape (coming soon)
  • Hair: no.match_ ~ NO_CLOSER ~ Pack of BLACKS
  • Eyebrows: LIVIA::Destiny Eyebrows [Genus/Catwa/Omega/System-BOM]
  • Eyes: AG. Luminous Eyes – Coffee
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: Dotty’s Secret – Pride Smokey Eye (Pride at Home Exclusive)
  • Lipstick: : Dernier : “Love” Pack (Gift – Free Group Join)
  • Nail Polish: KJIm: Pride Nails

Background & Additional Information

  • Pose: Homemade (unavailable)
  • Backdrop: The Bearded Guy – Listen This (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

Hiding Out

Hiding Out

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ PJs: .Q. Tranquil -FTPACK- [Freya,HG,Legacy,Lara,eBody,BBL,Jessica] (former Tres Chic item)
  • ☘ Anklet: [Sheba] Evil eye anklet (MAITREYA /BELLEZA /SLINK /EBODY)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Head: LeLutka Lake Head 1.2
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.2
  • Skin: . MILA . Norah Skin [Choco] LELUTKA
  • Hair: no.match_ ~ NO_CATWALK ~ Pack of BLACKS (former Tres Chic item)

Background & Additional Information

  • Backdrop: FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Lake Cabin Complete (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Hanging Chair & Pose: FOXCITY. Hanging Lounger (Static Poses) (former Saturday Sale item)

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Why the Banshee Attacked…

Why the Banshee Attacked...

All he had to do was name his enemy and he would have been spared.

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Dress: .Q. Charmed -FTPCK- [Freya,HG,Legacy,Lara,BBL,eBody,Jessica] (former We Will Be Heard event item)
  • Jewelry Set: Beloved Jewelry : Reuelle Set @ ☘ Gems by Unik

Body & Makeup Information

  • Head: LeLutka Lake Head 1.2
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.2
  • Skin: .:Soul:. G2F – Fala – [SE Grey1]
  • Hair: no.match_ ~ NO TENDERNESS (faMESHed X gift)
  • Eyes: UniCult – Perish Eyes @ ☘ Salon 52
  • Eye & Chest Veins: Izzie’s – Dark Veins
  • Sunken Cheeks: +FATHER+ – Undead Face – 50% – BOM
  • ☘ Eyebrows: A R T E – Vision Eyebrows (former Sanarae item)
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: CAZIMI: Exiled HD Lip & Eye Set (Lelutka) (former Liaison Collaborative item)
  • ☘ Lipstick: CAZIMI: Exiled HD Lip & Eye Set (Lelutka) (former Liaison Collaborative item)
  • ☘ Nails: Avada~ Ossatura Stiletto Nails @ Dark Style Fair

Background & Additional Information

  • Trees: Synnergy Dark Pond Scene (former Manly Weekend item)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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Love & Adulation

Love & Adulation

I want someone to look at me the way Baby Pete is looking at these grapes for lunch. LOL

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup Information

  • Hair: no.match_ ~ NO_RING ~ Pack of BLACKS
  • ☘ Eyebrows: A R T E – Gitte Eyebrows [BOM]
  • ☘ Eyes: A R T E – Eyla Eyes
  • ☘ Nails: Avada~ Ballerina Nails – Aura (former Swank item)

Background & Additional Information

  • Backdrop: .::Crystal ::. Flowers // Backdrop (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Pose: Personal pose made with AnyPose
  • Face manipulated with: LeLutka Axis HUD Face 1.1
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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No Words…

No Words...

So much in my head but no way to really convey it. I simply have no words.

❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Top: .Q. Vendetta -FTPK @ The Galleria Mall
  • Earrings: (Yummy) Eclat Suite – All Colors
  • Necklace: FAKEICON / mary gems collar / white @ faMESHed
  • ☘ Rings: Avada~ Sierra Rings @ Unik Event starting 10/07/2019

Body & Makeup

Background & Additional Information

  • Pose: FOXCITY. Body Language-5 (Fatpack exclusive) (former Saturday Sale item; heavily modified using AnyPose & Fate Hand Poser 3.0)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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