On the Right Path

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I saw something a few days ago that made me laugh so hard.  Not because it was just that funny (though it was hilarious).  But because I have been so busy working on my own life, my self, my love of self and more that unlike this thing I saw I didn’t have time to register them on my radar let alone have them so entrenched in my cerebral cortex that I hadn’t moved on with my life.  And it made me remember something I have been saying for a long time to my friends and family: when you are out there working on living (and in so doing living) your best life and learning to love yourself even more with each passing day, you will be too busy to worry about who or what you perceive has wronged you in your past.

You will sweat small petty things less. You will find less to start shit about. You will have less time to perpetuate bullshit. You will be so busy laughing, smiling, moving forward and growing as a person that when old bullshit comes to rear its ugly head you may shake your head for a hot second; but in the end you will laugh at how you may not have even been thinking about/sweating some things while those entities that are…are stuck in the muck and miserable still trying to disrupt you and your happiness.

Living (or trying to live) your best life doesn’t mean that your life is 100% orgasms and ice cream/rainbows and unicorns. It means you’re choosing to do things in life that make you feel good; enhance your overall mental and emotional well-being. You are choosing to remove as much negativity from your existence as possible. You are trying to live a life where you’re in higher spirits, smiling more for yourself and enjoying the little high moments that life can bring to you.

There will be bad times. We all have them. It’s unrealistic to believe that anyone’s journey will leave them without some level of battle scars, including ourselves. You will have those moments where new things (and even some old) will upset you. But once you’re on the path you’re no longer dwelling on things that have happened in your past. You will hopefully be able to work through the new challenges that upset you with a more clear head and clear vision. You are working through the lessons those experiences bring. You are pushing forward, knowing that you don’t have to have those things in your life that constantly bring you down; that you don’t have to react to or retaliate on old shit. That bitterness, that anger…it just breeds more of what you’re trying to remove from your life.

In essence, you living (or working on living) your best life is going to help cure that cancer of negative energy that will eat away at all the good things that can or should be happening to you. You will recognize and focus more on your blessings, no matter the form with which they are delivered to you. Once you are on the path, though you will have moments where you stumble, or lose your way but you will get back up; you will dust yourself off and you’ll find your way back to that path a lot faster than you did before.

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup

  • Hairbase: S.E CATWA MICHELE FNTY HAIRBASE DARK COLORS @ Skin Fair 2018 opening 03/09/2018
  • Eyelashes: LIVIA // Whisper Lashes @ Blush until 03/18/2018
  • Eyeshadow: LIVIA // Desire Eyeshadow @ Blush until 03/18/2018
  • Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* Catwa Lipstick ~ Cool Change
  • Nail Polish: LIVIA::Sweet Love Nails [Feb 2018 Group Gift]
  • All other body basics found here.

Other Information

  • Chair: *AR* – Armchair – Antara
  • Additional Lighting by Lumipro.

Sponsored items are in bold; promotional items have a plus sign (+) before the item.

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Shadowboxers

Ok.  I’m trying to get my cardio up so I can keep up w/ the very energetic kids I teach over at LPA!  Good thing my boy is here to help me train!

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He’s got me following his every step with this shadowboxing workout. Thankfully this is just for cardio.  Well…maybe beat up on a griefer or two if they try to hurt the babies. I know I won’t be taking on Apollo Creed anytime soon though. LOL We’ll see!

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

On Me

On Dexter

  • Top: [LOB] TOGYM SPORT SET – WHITE (former Men’s Jail item)
  • Shorts: [BREAKIN] M. Midnight Madness Swim Shorts Black
  • Shoes: [VALE KOER] THE VASIFORM GROUP GIFT
  • Ring: ROZOREGALIA_VIGRO*RING_SIGNATURE_BOX (former group gift)
  • Skin: STRAY DOG – Tank – TONE 10
  • Shape: .KULA. Josh Bento Shape @ The Skin Fair coming 03/09/2018
  • Head: CATWA HEAD Stanley
  • Eyes: **pc eyes – pearl – m/r – clear pond (no longer available)
  • Body: [SIGNATURE] Gianni – Mesh Body – v4.5

Other Information

  • Warehouse: Marian Lean – Skybox Warehouse Rezz Box
  • Boxing Ring: [Bad Unicorn] Boxing Ring (boxed) RARE
  • Additional Weights Decor: Pilot & Exposeur – Morello Weight Bench
    • Pilot & Exposeur – Large Floor Dumbell
    • Pilot & Exposeur – Floor Waterbottle
  • Additional Lighting by Lumipro.

Sponsored items are in bold; promotional items have a plus sign (+) before the item.

New DJ Promo Shots

So after being asked to supply the people who are honoring me tonight with a DJ photo of myself, it hit me…TIME FOR NEW PROMO PHOTOS! Honor you say? Why yes. So let me Tarantino this for you right quick. Tonight is Zeta Gamma Rho’s First Annual Black Excellence Gala, an event honoring Black-owned Businesses in Second Life.

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And for those who didn’t know, not only am I a blogger and a store owner (KJ Immortal: Home to KJIm Apparel | KJIm Kids Apparel| KJIm Poses … KJIm for short 😛 ) but I have been an online DJ in Second Life since 2008. Not a huge deal in the grand scheme of things. But it is something that I truly enjoy and am proud of having done for so long. I love playing music for people, taking requests & interacting with the crowd…hopefully making their booties shake and sing along behind their comps. I know that I’m not the best at what I do (especially since I don’t live mix)…but to be considered is an honor nonetheless and I’m extremely grateful for the award.

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Anywho, after rifling through my closets trying to find the perfect look, I snapped a couple of shots and then couldn’t decide which one looked better so I made two.  Feel free to put in comments which one you like better.

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If you’re looking to complete the look, you definitely want to head over to Blueberry to pick up her latest release because these swank boots come with it! The detail on the heel is to die for; so intricate! And if you get the fatpack you get exclusive colors along with both the regular jean and leather huds (which I’m wearing right in these shots here…RAWR)!  Rounding out my look are what might be my newest favorite piece of body jewelry: the Coax bellychain from Cynful. I love how the ball bearings are pulled together to complete the look. You can pick that (and some really hot lingerie) up over at Whore couture until 03/31/017.

Anywaaaaay, now that the promos are done…time to get changed for tonight! Ciao for now kids!

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Jacket: ED. Kendra Jacket Red
  • Pants: Blueberry – Gracie Pants
  • Belly Chain: [Cynful] Coax Bellychain
    at Whore Couture 7 til 03/31/2017 [Event SLurl]
  • Necklace & Earrings: {HJ} Simplicity Diamond Set

Body & Makeup

  • Hair: [^.^Ayashi^.^] Miya hair-Basic set
    at the February round of Kinkly Monthly [Event SLurl]
  • Nail Polish: {ZOZ} Raya Polish (M/V Duo)
    available at The Chapter Four [Event SLurl]
  • Basic Body Information can be found here: Basics

Background, Props & Lighting

  • On Air Sign: [Con.] On Air Signage – Silver
  • Microphone: [Con.] On Air Microphone – Silver – tips here
  • Backdrop: [VL] Diamonds Backdrop

Lighting by Lumipro.

Primpin…

Today is my grandson’s wedding day. I’m very excited and want to make sure I look … just right. I don’t think I’ve ever beat this mug so hard.  But today I’ll be sure to be thorough…

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I think I got this makeup thing down! Just a little more and perrrrfect…yaaas!

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Ok…dress next.  Thank goodness I don’t do this makeup thing every day! Whooo!!  This is work!

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Lingerie: [Cynful] Coax Lingerie
    at Whore Couture 7 til 03/31/2017 [Event SLurl]
  • Earrings: EarthStones Laraine Jewelry Set – Diamond Platinum
    comes with a necklace
  • Necklace: [Cynful] Coax Necklace – Groupgift March 2017
    *group join is free

Body & Makeup

  • Hairbase: Just Magnetized – Basic Hairbase – LIMITED 01 for OMEGA
    old Limit 8 event purchase [website]
  • Nail Polish: {ZOZ} Raya Polish (M/V Duo)
    available at The Chapter Four [Event SLurl]
  • Basic Body Information can be found here: Basics

Background, Props & Lighting

  • Props: Invidah* Demorae Wardrobe [pure] (incl poses that give compact & puff)
    part of Invidah* Demorae Bedroom Set FAMILY
  • Drapes: Invidah* Demorae Bedroom Set FAMILY
  • Sink & Mirror: (part of) * AR * – 13L – Amelia vc

Windlight: Naminaeko Windlight Lake Lady Skin

Lighting by Lumipro.

Just Resting My Eyes for a Minute…

I went to sit and appreciate the view from mine and babe’s little hideaway in the sky and man if I didn’t doze off.  Well…at least I look fabulous while I nap, right? I found this cute top from Riciell on the marketplace and paired it with the cutest skirt (with optional straps) from Blueberry.

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Finishing off the look are these sexy heels from Empire!  You can get them at Whore Couture ladies!

Ciao for now, kiddies!

DEETS

Hair: Vanity Hair: After Dark-Blacks [SLurl]
Top: Riciell – TRISHA Basic Shirt HUD 24 colors [MP]
Shorts: Blueberry – Kyla – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Fat Pack [SLurl]
Shoes: #EMPIRE – Azalea (available at Whore Couture 5) [SLurl]
Earrings: erratic / hoop earrings / silver [SLurl]
Bracelet: **RE** Aeternum Couple Bracelets [MP Link]
Infinity Ring: [part of] Izzie’s – Midi Rings (silver) – MODDED [SLurl]
Bracelet: :BAMSE: Belonging Bracelets – QUEEN (L) (gacha) [SLurl]

Hands & Feet – Slink AvEnhance Hands Female – Casual & Slink AvEnhance Feet Female High [SLurl]
Body – Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara [SLurl]

*Skin, shape, eyes information: unavailable
**Nail Polish is for Slink Hands ONLY