The Sundae That is Me

We never know what life is going to bring us, or how it will mold us into who we eventually become. Barefaced, made up, I am simply me.

I am a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman and I am very proud of this fact.

I could write a post about how I came to discover who I was, my sexuality and how I came out. But honestly, I shouldn’t have to. I was born to love all beings, no matter their gender, no matter how they identify. And in discovering who I was and how I loved others helped me learn a lot about myself and how to accept who I was.

Pride isn’t just about proclaiming your sexuality proudly and wearing it like a badge of honor. It’s owning who you are, how you live and embracing your entire self as a person.

It’s about loving your imperfections as well as the labels that both you and society place upon yourself.  And it is more than something to do during the month of June.

I am simply me, imperfections and all. And I’m so proud of that.

The fact that I’m a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman … just happens to be the sprinkles on the Sundae that is me.

Happy Pride Month everyone.  May you all love each other and yourselves.

Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

• Jumpsuit: .Q. Irenic -FATPACK- [Freya,HG,Lara,eBody,Jessica,Kupra]
• Earrings: e.marie // Aubrey Earrings – Silvers (former Saturday Sale item)
• Rings: RAWR! Foxy Rings (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup Information

• Daily Body Basics can be found here.
• Skin: [LERONSO] CATWA HDPRO MajerEdged Skin “Eniola” – chocolate (former Beauty Event item)
• Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
• Head: CATWA HDPRO Queen
• Hairbase: NNTVE X TRES BEAU NAJA HAIRBASE (BLACKS)
• Shape: KJIm: Tina Shape (coming soon)
• Hair: no.match_ ~ NO_CLOSER ~ Pack of BLACKS
• Eyebrows: LIVIA::Destiny Eyebrows [Genus/Catwa/Omega/System-BOM]
• Eyes: AG. Luminous Eyes – Coffee
• Eyeshadow: Dotty’s Secret – Pride Smokey Eye (Pride at Home Exclusive)
• Lipstick: : Dernier : “Love” Pack (Gift – Free Group Join)
• Nail Polish: KJIm: Pride Nails

Background & Additional Information

• Pose: Homemade (unavailable)
• Backdrop: The Bearded Guy – Listen This (former Saturday Sale item)
• Additional Lighting: Lumipro

Food Delivery to the Rescue!

This family vacation has been super busy! But today is Memorial Day and we decided to stay in the house.

So after I finally got my hair twisted so it can be all wavy later, I ordered us some good eats from the food delivery place!

And instead of cooking we ordered Ivory Tower & sweets from the local bakery! The delivery guy from the bakery should be here soon with our order but in the meantime, let me feed this hungry lil munchkins!  Good thing I ordered enough for the house…I think?  ACK! Bags are falling! I hope they catch them!

After a successful game of catch the falling bags, we got the babies all fed and now it’s time to relax! Whew!

Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

• Shirt: RIOT / Devyn Tanks – White
• Shorts: RIOT / Isla Denim Shorts – Blue17
• Socks: [ VERSOV ] COMFOV_SOCKS_2.7_FATPACK
• Sneakers: [ VERSOV ] CYBEROV_SNEAKERS_FATPACK

Body & Makeup Information

• Daily Body Basics can be found here.
• Hair: Unorthodox– Glitz Hair

Background & Additional Information

• Pose: Homemade (unavailable)
• Food: Junk Food – Ivory Tower Set @ Access
• Delivery Person: H.O.W Mesh Box Carrying Woman Box
• Shot on location at Lake Geneva Camp and Resort

Bouquet

Nothing like fresh picked flowers to get me giddy.  Ahhh

Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

• Outfit: (*<*) 1313 Cheryl Set – Mega Fatpack (former Bloom Event item)

Body & Makeup Information

• Daily Body Basics can be found here.
• Skin (Face): TRES BEAU KITTY SKIN (LELUTKA EV) ESPRESSO
• Skin (Body): B&B :: Legacy f (Body BOM) – Espresso Tummy&Normal
• Hair: Unorthodox– Chelli Hair
• Eyebrow: Dotty’s Secret – Beauty Brows – Thin Set

Background & Additional Information

• Pose: KJIm: Field of Flowers (coming soon to MP)
• Backdrop: Synnergy Flower Patch Backdrop

Watermelon Sugar

If watermelon sugar was a whole mood, this would be it for me.

Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

• Outfit: {EB} AIME FATPACK
• Earrings & Necklace: Cae :: Enchanted :: Ensemble
• Rings: (Yummy) Spring Butterfly Ring Collection

Body & Makeup Information

• Daily Body Basics can be found here.
• Hair: Unorthodox– Zair Hair @ The Men’s Dept
• Eyebrow: Dotty’s Secret – Twiggy – Brow Set
• Eye Shadow: CAZIMI: Wild Side HD Eyeshadow (Lelutka)
• Nails: Avada~ Stiletto Nails – Urlare @ BigGirl Event

Background & Additional Information

• Pose: Personal Pose Unavailable
• Backdrop: FOXCITY. Photo Booth – New Beginnings
• Additional Lighting: Lumipro

Plumage

My feathers are damaged and worn. And as the seasons change, my plumage will develop into something magnificent.

Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

• Dress (worn but not visible): Cynful Odette Corset Dress – Fatpack
• Tiara: [Glitzz] Alav Diamonds Tiara

Body & Makeup Information

• Daily Body Basics can be found here.
• Head: LeLUTKA Briannon Head 3.0 (former Skin Fair item)
• Body, Hands & Feet: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
• Skin: Bold & Beauty :: Adut (Lelutka BOM) – Espresso
• Hair: .:EMO-tions.. *HAIRBASE 2.0 + HP D* -fatpack
• Eyebrows: Dotty’s Secret – Beauty Brows – Thin Set (former Skin Fair 2021 item)
• Eye Shadow: Dotty’s Secret – Gotmilk – Makeup Set
• Lipstick & Contour: Dotty’s Secret – The Ghoul – Makeup Set
• Nails: Avada~ Stiletto Nails – Fumee (former Tres Chic item)

Background & Additional Information

• Pose: KJIm – Unavailable
• Backdrop: Synnergy Black Glossy Backdrop
• Additional Lighting: Lumipro