The Sundae That is Me

The Sundae That is Me

We never know what life is going to bring us, or how it will mold us into who we eventually become. Barefaced, made up, I am simply me.

Born to Be...Me

I am a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman and I am very proud of this fact.

I could write a post about how I came to discover who I was, my sexuality and how I came out. But honestly, I shouldn’t have to. I was born to love all beings, no matter their gender, no matter how they identify. And in discovering who I was and how I loved others helped me learn a lot about myself and how to accept who I was.

Pride isn’t just about proclaiming your sexuality proudly and wearing it like a badge of honor. It’s owning who you are, how you live and embracing your entire self as a person.

It’s about loving your imperfections as well as the labels that both you and society place upon yourself.  And it is more than something to do during the month of June.

I am simply me, imperfections and all. And I’m so proud of that.

The fact that I’m a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman … just happens to be the sprinkles on the Sundae that is me.

Happy Pride Month everyone.  May you all love each other and yourselves.

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Jumpsuit: .Q. Irenic -FATPACK- [Freya,HG,Lara,eBody,Jessica,Kupra]
  • Earrings: e.marie // Aubrey Earrings – Silvers (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Rings: RAWR! Foxy Rings (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Daily Body Basics can be found here.
  • ☘ Skin: [LERONSO] CATWA HDPRO MajerEdged Skin “Eniola” – chocolate (former Beauty Event item)
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
  • Head: CATWA HDPRO Queen
  • Hairbase: NNTVE X TRES BEAU NAJA HAIRBASE (BLACKS)
  • Shape: KJIm: Tina Shape (coming soon)
  • Hair: no.match_ ~ NO_CLOSER ~ Pack of BLACKS
  • Eyebrows: LIVIA::Destiny Eyebrows [Genus/Catwa/Omega/System-BOM]
  • Eyes: AG. Luminous Eyes – Coffee
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: Dotty’s Secret – Pride Smokey Eye (Pride at Home Exclusive)
  • Lipstick: : Dernier : “Love” Pack (Gift – Free Group Join)
  • Nail Polish: KJIm: Pride Nails

Background & Additional Information

  • Pose: Homemade (unavailable)
  • Backdrop: The Bearded Guy – Listen This (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

Changing Faces…Again?

The quest for a new skin….CONTINUES!!

Changing Faces...Again?

Ooh a little rouge on the cheeks maybe..hmmm?

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I feel a lil yummy in this nutmeg goodness. RAWR

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Bikini: Cynful Fashionista Bikini
  • Earrings: = DAE = MONEY $$$$$ EARING pack (60L Happy Weekend item)
  • Necklace: Vibing — Jamie necklace — Silver (60L Happy Weekend item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Head: CATWA HDPRO Queen
  • Body: [ INITHIUM ] KUPRA HD BOM V.001/3
  • Shape: Work in Process
  • Skin: [LERONSO] CATWA HDPRO MajerEdged Skin “Elysse” (available in Latte & Nutmeg Tones) @ Happy 99 Event
  • Hair: Stealthic – Narcotic (Ombres)
  • Hair Base: NNTVE X TRES BEAU NAJA HAIRBASE (BLACKS)
  • Eyes: Clover – Bom eye set (group gift)
  • Eye Color: [amicale] envase eyes – A1 @ ☘ Unik
  • ☘ Eyelashes: Unorthodox Lash Set 01- Fatpack
  • Eyebrows: PBeauty – Archer Eyebrows Collection (Catwa HD PRO)
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: CAZIMI: Eyeshadow – Dahlia
  • ☘ Lipstick: Dotty’s Secret – Dead Bae – Lipstick
  • ☘ Nails: Avada~ Stiletto Nails – Luce Nero @ The Darkness Event

Background & Additional Information

  • Prop: FOXCITY. Made Up Bento Pose Set (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Pose: FoxCity (but I can’t remember which pose pack)
  • Backdrop: Exposeur – Hex Wall
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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Monster vs Hostage

Monster vs. Hostage

She never asked for this. She was brutalized and punished for it. And now, for every person who gazes upon her, she sheds silent tears over their fate.  For their undoing is her torture and her heart wrenches with every hiss, every scream and every cry as each one slowly turns to stone. She is held hostage, penalized for a crime she would never inflict on another only to punish those who gaze upon her. No control, no free will…she was just just a captive weapon.

We only see the monster.  We never see the torture of her pain from a punishment she didn’t deserve.

❤ Kilo

Body & Makeup Information

  • Head: LeLutka Lake Head 1.2
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.2
  • Skin: .:Soul:. Gen2 F – Hailey – [SE Orc]
  • ☘ Hair: Unorthodox Scary Hair Day Fatpack ** @ Epiphany
  • Eyes: AG. Tease Eyes Pack
  • Tears: CATWA Mesh Eyes Pack
  • Eye Veins: Izzie’s – Dark Veins
  • ☘ Beauty Marks: CAZIMI: VIP Gift Classic Beauty Marks
  • Face Scales: Izzie’s – Mermaid Make-Up Set
  • Body Scales: Izzie’s – Body Mermaid Scales
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: CAZIMI: Vamp HD Makeup (Lelutka) (former Saturday Sale item)
  • ☘ Lipstick: Dotty’s Secret – Obsessed [GREENS] – Lip Gloss Set

Background & Additional Information

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One More Try

One More Try

It is said the road to hell is paved with good intentions.  But what if you’re trying to get to the lighter parts of the road? What if you’re trying to escape hell? Does that mean be an asshole? I often wonder which is worse…failing miserably at being good when trying to find the light only to end up in the darkness that much more. Or to just be bad and end up in the darkness anyway.

I’m definitely no angel. But I damn sure ain’t the devil either.  Towing that line is a challenge. But let me be a good person, let me do good things and maybe the light will find me in the midst of the darkness and pull me out.

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Dress: Artizana – Halida – Mesh Mini Dress @ Designer Showcase
  • ☘ Shoes: [Sheba] Nia Heels Fatpack
  • Horns: FOXCITY. Prop – Halo Horns. Holographic (former SL 16th Birthday Gift – no longer avail)
  • Rings: LIVIA::Chiara Bento Ring Set
  • Rings: [ SpotCat ] Flight – Bento rings (coming to May Round of Tres Chic)

Body & Makeup Information

Background & Additional Information

  • Backdrop: FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Halo Holographic (former Saturday Sale Item)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro
  • Additional Pose Modification: AnyPose Hud

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How Good It Is

Mmh, I’m an orange moon
I’m an orange moon
Reflecting the light of the sun

How Good It Is

How good it is, how good it is
How good it is, how good it is
How good
~ Erykah Badu, ‘Orange Moon’

❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Headwrap: :: ARTIZANA :: BLESSING VIII Gele Headwrap
  • Top: Addams // Piper Button-Front Sweater // FATPACK
  • Earrings: MG – Earrings – Coachella Gypsy
  • Rings: [RHUDE] Celestial Rings Silver (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup

  • Eyes: CATWA Mesh Eyes Pack
  • ☘ Eye applier: A R T E – Radiance Eyes [GENUS] (former eBento Sale item)
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: *Booty’s Beauty* [Catwa & BOM] Darkside Makeup Set
  • ☘ Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* [Catwa & BOM] Darkside Makeup Set
  • ☘ Nails: Avada~ Ballerina Nails – Falena @ SWANK Events
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

Background & Additional Information

  • Backdrop: FOXCITY. Photo Booth – God Is A Woman (former Tres Chic item)
  • Pose: [Black Tulip] Headshot F #3 (modified using AnyPose)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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