The Sundae That is Me

The Sundae That is Me

We never know what life is going to bring us, or how it will mold us into who we eventually become. Barefaced, made up, I am simply me.

Born to Be...Me

I am a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman and I am very proud of this fact.

I could write a post about how I came to discover who I was, my sexuality and how I came out. But honestly, I shouldn’t have to. I was born to love all beings, no matter their gender, no matter how they identify. And in discovering who I was and how I loved others helped me learn a lot about myself and how to accept who I was.

Pride isn’t just about proclaiming your sexuality proudly and wearing it like a badge of honor. It’s owning who you are, how you live and embracing your entire self as a person.

It’s about loving your imperfections as well as the labels that both you and society place upon yourself.  And it is more than something to do during the month of June.

I am simply me, imperfections and all. And I’m so proud of that.

The fact that I’m a 40+ Pansexual, Black woman … just happens to be the sprinkles on the Sundae that is me.

Happy Pride Month everyone.  May you all love each other and yourselves.

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Jumpsuit: .Q. Irenic -FATPACK- [Freya,HG,Lara,eBody,Jessica,Kupra]
  • Earrings: e.marie // Aubrey Earrings – Silvers (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Rings: RAWR! Foxy Rings (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Daily Body Basics can be found here.
  • ☘ Skin: [LERONSO] CATWA HDPRO MajerEdged Skin “Eniola” – chocolate (former Beauty Event item)
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.3
  • Head: CATWA HDPRO Queen
  • Hairbase: NNTVE X TRES BEAU NAJA HAIRBASE (BLACKS)
  • Shape: KJIm: Tina Shape (coming soon)
  • Hair: no.match_ ~ NO_CLOSER ~ Pack of BLACKS
  • Eyebrows: LIVIA::Destiny Eyebrows [Genus/Catwa/Omega/System-BOM]
  • Eyes: AG. Luminous Eyes – Coffee
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: Dotty’s Secret – Pride Smokey Eye (Pride at Home Exclusive)
  • Lipstick: : Dernier : “Love” Pack (Gift – Free Group Join)
  • Nail Polish: KJIm: Pride Nails

Background & Additional Information

  • Pose: Homemade (unavailable)
  • Backdrop: The Bearded Guy – Listen This (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

Bouquet

Bouquet

Nothing like fresh picked flowers to get me giddy.  Ahhh

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Outfit: (*<*) 1313 Cheryl Set – Mega Fatpack (former Bloom Event item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Daily Body Basics can be found here.
  • Skin (Face): TRES BEAU KITTY SKIN (LELUTKA EV) ESPRESSO
  • Skin (Body): B&B :: Legacy f (Body BOM) – Espresso Tummy&Normal
  • ☘ Hair: Unorthodox– Chelli Hair
  • ☘ Eyebrow: Dotty’s Secret – Beauty Brows – Thin Set

Background & Additional Information

  • Pose: KJIm: Field of Flowers (coming soon to MP)
  • Backdrop: Synnergy Flower Patch Backdrop

A Night Dip

A Night Dip

Pool perfectly heated, peaceful music over the speakers…oh yes.  Nothing like a peaceful night dip. Ciao

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup Information

  • Head: LeLutka Bento Head-AIDA
  • ☘ Hair: Unorthodox Shai Curls (Wash Day) Femme fit (former Epiphany item)
  • Hairbase: Just Magnetized – Essential Hairbase – set 01 for OMEGA
  • Eyes: FT : Danna Eyes- Fatpack (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Eyebrows: . KULA . Courtney Eyebrow Collection
  • Body: [SIGNATURE] Alice – Mesh Body – v2.3
  • Skin: . MILA . Alice Skin [Dark] LELUTKA
  • Shape: KJIm: Muriel Shape (optimized for LeLutka Aida Head)

Background & Additional Information

  • Pose: self-made (not for sale)
  • Building: The Bearded Guy – Purple Machine Pool (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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It’s 5 o’clock in 2020

It's 5 o'clock in 2020

It is said that it’s always 5 o’clock somewhere. But hey…it’s 2020. Drink while you can!  Salud!

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup Information

  • Head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Classic Face W001 – Mocap
  • Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V5.2
  • Skin: MB x Genus Skin – Alana Cacau (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Shape: KJIm: Emma Shape (optimized for Genus Classic Head)
  • ☘ Eyes: A R T E – Blue Gems Eyes (former Unik item)
  • ☘ Eyeliner: Avada~ Kohl Eyeliner for Genus (former Makeover Room item)
  • ☘ Eyelashes: *Booty’s Beauty* [Genus & Omega] Mascara Lashes
  • Hair: ICONIC:MAINSTORE:KAYLA:VARIETY:PACK
  • Hairbase: Just Magnetized – Essential Hairbase – set 01 (bakes on mesh)
  • Nails: {WitchCraft} Kim Bento Coffin Nails @ ☘ Gems by Unik
  • ☘ Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* [Genus BOM & HD] Alloy Makeup

Background & Additional Information

  • Pose: Diesel Works – The Debutante Chaise – Cream
  • Building: FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Poolside (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Butler: Mutresse – Ribald Butler – Bartender
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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Thank You, Next…

Thank You, Next...

❤ Kilo

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Top: Baetik : Amina Top : Essence (former Cosmopolitan Sales Event item)
  • ☘ Jeans: Cynful Keeper Flare Pants – Fatpack @ Collabor88
  • Shoes: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Premium Outfit
  • Earrings: [RHUDE] Static Earrings Silver (former Saturday Sale Item)
  • Necklace: MG – Necklace – Chloe Leather Necklace with Antique Heart
  • Rings: (Yummy) Galaxy Ring Set (former Collabor88 item)

Body & Makeup Information

  • Hair: MINA – Bas – Ombres 1.0 (includes hairbase)
  • Head: LeLUTKA Erin Head 1.0
  • Skin: . MILA . Desiree Skin [Choco] LELUTKA EVOLUTION
  • Shape: KJIm – Work in Progress
  • Body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
  • ☘ Eyes: A R T E – Reflection Eyes @ The Liaison Collaborative
  • ☘ Beauty Mark: *Booty’s Beauty* [Lelutka Evolution] Cookies N’ Cream Style [BoM]
  • ☘ Lipstick: CAZIMI: Luxury HD Lipstick (Lelutka) coming to Skin Fair 2020
  • ☘ Nails & Polish: Avada~ Ballerina Nails – Bexley @ Unik

Background & Additional Information

  • ☘ Drink: Junk Food – Tears of Exes (Fatpack)
  • Backdrop: MINIMAL – Omnia Backdrop (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Pose: Personal pose not for sale
  • Windlight: Swain – Chocolate Series 9
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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