My Seester’s Keeper (An Open Letter)

My Seester's Keeper (An Open Letter)

(Photo credit: Kenyatta May Wachmann)

My real life half-sister (and one of my real life half-brothers) passed long before I was born so I never knew them. And my three half-brothers I didn’t have much of a relationship with; all significantly older.  And though I do talk to two of them more now than I did growing up, I never really knew what it was like to have siblings until I came to Second Life.

I have quite a few siblings now. More than RL and more than I ever expected to have. Each one is their own unique person; all nationalities and sizes.

This special one here is my kid sister, Kenyatta.  She’s mouthy, a brat, impulsive, quick-tempered at times, hi-fucking-larious and more than anything…she’s genuine.

I have known her for going on 3 years and she’s been my sister for the better part of 2.  How we met?  At a Lesbian club/safe haven where her overly flirtatious mouth made me wholly (WHOLLY) uncomfortable when I wasn’t laughing my ass off at her antics! LMBO

In the time I have been both her friend and family we have pissed each other off, made each other laugh til something spilled from somewhere (at least she has for me 😛 ), cried together, held each other when the other needed and patched each other up from enough emotional & mental scrapes that you’d think we were war veterans. We still laugh over the fact we have both dated a couple of the same people prior to either of us knowing one another!

There are days we have scolded each other as though we were parent and child. And days where if anyone on the outside were looking in and didn’t know better, they’d probably assume that we have some sort of virtually incestual relationship (ah the joys of SL and the misconception of SOME familial ties – relax folks…not all families screw their relatives).

Overall, this woman…the woman behind the avatar…is more a sister to me than any flesh & bone sister I could had hoped to have in my real life.  And to see her have blossomed over the past year and some change has been a true marvel. She has become more independent, more self-aware and with every breath stronger than she has been the day before.

She deserves the world and a whole lot more.  And anyone who has her in their life is damn lucky to have her in any capacity. I pity those who don’t realize (or take for granted) what a find she truly is. You will never find a more steadfast person than this crazy Alabama woman.

She has one of the biggest hearts I’ve ever seen.  And she would literally give the last coin in her purse to someone she cared about if she could.  There aren’t many people like this in any world.  And I just wanted her to know that I see her; that I love her immensely and even though she wasn’t baked in the oven nearly as long as I was, that I treasure our friendship as well as our seesterdom more than she’ll ever know.

Thank you for being my friend, Kenya. But most important thank you for being my sister.

❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Romper: ReignxFlite. – Rompim/Romper Set (former Uber item)
  • Kenya’s Details: I have absolutely no idea! I forgot to ask. LOL

Body & Makeup

  • ☘ Hair: ICONIC: Talia (former Liaison Collaborative & Saturday Sale item)
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

Sponsored items have a ☘ before the item. Promotional items have a 🌈 before the item.

Baby’s First Christmas

I finally took the Christmas decorations down and started looking through my phone for piccies from the holiday.  This was my daughter Jami’s first Christmas with our family and I had custom ordered some ornaments from KJIm as well as getting some presents for my big girls Mariah, Nalah and Shenaye.

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What I wasn’t expecting however was that my very smart and incredibly precocious little one would get into the presents.  But I completely caught her in the act! I thought it was my niece’s dog, Buddy. Boy was I wrong! LOL

Now that my decorations are down…I have no idea what we’re going to do to fill that extra space. LOL  So much space! X.x

Maybe a Valentine’s Day set up? Hmm…

❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Outfit: [Cynful] Doppelganger Dress – Fatpack (former Collabor88 & Saturday Sale item)
  • Shoes: REIGN.- SANSA FLATS – FATPACK (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Jami’s Outfit: unavailable (home made)

Body & Makeup

  • Hair: TRUTH VIP Joy (L$350L group join fee; past gifts L$500)
  • Nails: #EMPIRE – Coffin Nails – Long
  • Nail Polish: CAZIMI: Midnight Ombre Nails – Pro Palette (former Saturday Sale item)
  • All body basics found here.

Decor & Other Information

  • Christmas Tree: Tex’s Tree Farm – Blue Spruce – Christmas Tree (includes all the white presents under the tree)
  • Tree Skirt: malone. pom pom tree skirt
  • 🍀 All gift boxes (in color) under the tree: Junk Food – Presents (former Sanarae sales item)
    • Junk Food – Slaystation 4 Present
    • Junk Food – Peekaboo Presents
  • 🍀 Poses: Works in Progress by KJIm
    • Curious Baby Pose: Name to be Determined
    • Ornament & Bowl: KJIm – Baby’s First Christmas Ornament (coming soon)

Sponsored items have a 🍀 before the item. Promotional items have a 🌈 before the item.

Day Off

I love when I have the day off.  It means I can relax, formulate moves and just laze about my room, especially when the babies aren’t online. Though I miss them terribly, sometimes this momma needs a little me time to catch up on her gossip rags, and to take an uninterrupted nap.

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I was just getting into one actually when the phone rang and my baby sister said she was coming over.  I toooold her I wasn’t changing clothes. It’s my day off! Shooo.  She said she was coming anyway. Ok then…she’ll see me relaxed and all.  Ahhh…freedom from the bra! Yerrrs! 😛

❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Outfit: [Cynful] Pajama Silk Set – Fatpack @ Collabor88
  • ☘ Necklace: Avada~ Cauri Necklace @ Designer Showcase
  • ☘ Anklet: [Sheba] Unicorn anklet
  • Slippers: REIGN.- UNICORN SLIPPERS – FATPACK (former Saturday Sale item)
  • Phone: Pure Poison – Scorpio Phone (gacha item; not sure of availability)

Body & Makeup

  • ☘ Hair: .ICONIC.RACHEL.FATPACK @ faMESHed X
  • ☘ Hairbase: Avada~ Tijan Hairbase @ Gloss
  • Eye Shadow: Unavailable at present (will add at a later date)
  • ☘ Lipstick: LIVIA // Brilliant Gloss @ Gloss
  • Nails: #EMPIRE – Coffin Nails – Long
  • Nail Polish: CAZIMI: Neutral Gloss Nails – Pro Palette
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

Decor & Other Information

  • Bed & Vanity: The Loft – Claryon Suite Cream (PG)(Family)
  • Lotus Wall Decoration: Rekt Lotus Decor – Fatpack (no longer available)
  • Chair & Table:  * AR * – Bedroom Set – Antara 1.1

Sponsored items have a ☘ before the item. Promotional items have a 🌈 before the item.

Stopping for Groceries

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After a long day at work, I went and picked up my little one so we could head home.  On the way home, we swung by a new supermarket down the street: Giggity’s beYou Grocery Store & Ill Nana’s beYou Cafe.  It had everything we needed and more.  My little apple dumpling even spotted these cute little shopping carts and helped me shop today by driving it around so I could look at my list and grab what we needed for dinner: lasagna with meatballs (yum!).

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I think I got everything on the list.  Thank heavens I can check my beYou profile and grab the ingredients list from their recipe page to make sure I pick up everything in one trip! Let me swing on by the bakery to pick up dessert and some treats for later.

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❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • 🍀 Dress: .Q. Motive [Belleza,Hourglass,Maitreya,eBody,Katena]
  • 🍀 Purse: .Q. Motive Chained Handbag
  • Necklace: .ARISE. x ENIGMA Ama Necklace / Grey
  • Shoes: N-core STILETTO “Metal Toe Cap” For High Feet
  • Phone: REIGN.- WHATEVER PHONE CASE COLLECTION
  • Glasses: NEXOR – Taste Shadez (former Cosmopolitan Sales Event item)

Body & Makeup

  • Hair: Stealthic – Erratic (Blacks & Whites)
  • Nails: #EMPIRE – Coffin Nails – Medium
  • 🍀 Nail Polish: LIVIA::Solid Nail Coll MAITREYA // Set #1
  • All other body basics found here.

Decor & Other information:

Sponsored items have a 🍀 before the item. Promotional items have a 🌈 before the item.

Late for the Vet

*presses her sister’s assigned speed number to talk to her while she power walks the streets of Brooklyn*

Girl!  Yes, girl.  You need to head over to that nail shop I told you about!  She has got this new set of nails compatible with Maitreya & Slink hands that will work wonders with the way you take photos!  Peep this: on normal light settings, this nail polish she hooked me up with will show up simply as black.  But throw on those local lights and advanced lighting and you get a whole different set of colors! [holds up her nails, inspecting their awesomeness while popping her gum]

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What? Yeees! No I kid you not!  Ok.  Okay! Ye…yeeeessss I’m taking him now. how can I forget? He’s a PANTHER! Not like I’d miss him next to me. [rolls eyes] Ok. Give me the tea, girl. Oh you did? Where did you see her? Whaaaat?  [listens to the tea] Okay…alright, we’re here and they want cell phones off. I’ll call you back! Okay, girl. Bye!

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The Heights Photo Contest Entry

Ok. Sorry about that y’all. I am busy this Monday afternoon! After getting my nails done at this awesome little spot called Odd Eyed Cat, I had to bust my tail to get my panther Horace over to the vet! And with it being a brisk fall day in The Heights, I had to move quickly to get there! Thankfully, I knew a shortcut but sweet baby jeebus did the temp change! Ok around this corner and then we’re here!  I hope the vet’s not afraid of exotic animals… >.>

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Jacket: Mimikri – Anouk Fur Gilet black
  • Romper: {ViSion} – Romper Tessa – FAT PACK
    available at November round of Shiny Shabby [Event SLurl]
  • Shoes: [VALE KOER] UNDERCHEEK BOOTS BLACK
    available at November round of Kustom9 [Event SLurl]
  • Earrings: :: SAGA :: Ear Loops w.HUD
  • Necklace: .::Supernatural::. Sabrina set Silver
    available at November round of Shiny Shabby [Event SLurl]
  • Rings – Left Hand: Absolut Vendetta -Juno Bento Rings
  • Rings – Right Hand: MINIMAL – Espada Rings Silver
    available at November round of Shiny Shabby [Event SLurl]
  • Glasses: HAYSURIZA_Eyewear_Nice(Silver)
  • Purse: FA-VUITTONI-BLACK [no longer available]
  • Phone: REIGN.- WHATEVER PHONE CASE COLLECTION
  • Horace the Panther: Alchemy – The Huntress – Panther -COMPANION -Mystic- Dawn

Body & Makeup

  • Hair: Vanity Hair::Muerta de Amor-All Blacks Pack
    available at the November round of Hairology [Event SLurl]
  • Braided Hairbase: *booN Lab.cornrows base01
  • Hairbase Applier: SIIX// Russian Hairbase
  • Lipstick: *Booty’s Beauty* Catwa Makeup ~ Dusky
  • Nails: >^OeC^< Clawz – Burmese (Maitreya Fit)
  • Nail Polish: >^OeC^< Sheena – Clawz Burmese Polish
    *colors change only works with materials enabled (otherwise nail will show as black)
  • Basic Body Information not in details above can be found here: Basics

Shot on location in the city section of The Heights RP Sim (Adults ONLY).

Additional lighting by Lumipro. Sponsored items are in bold.