My Seester’s Keeper (An Open Letter)

My Seester's Keeper (An Open Letter)

(Photo credit: Kenyatta May Wachmann)

My real life half-sister (and one of my real life half-brothers) passed long before I was born so I never knew them. And my three half-brothers I didn’t have much of a relationship with; all significantly older.  And though I do talk to two of them more now than I did growing up, I never really knew what it was like to have siblings until I came to Second Life.

I have quite a few siblings now. More than RL and more than I ever expected to have. Each one is their own unique person; all nationalities and sizes.

This special one here is my kid sister, Kenyatta.  She’s mouthy, a brat, impulsive, quick-tempered at times, hi-fucking-larious and more than anything…she’s genuine.

I have known her for going on 3 years and she’s been my sister for the better part of 2.  How we met?  At a Lesbian club/safe haven where her overly flirtatious mouth made me wholly (WHOLLY) uncomfortable when I wasn’t laughing my ass off at her antics! LMBO

In the time I have been both her friend and family we have pissed each other off, made each other laugh til something spilled from somewhere (at least she has for me 😛 ), cried together, held each other when the other needed and patched each other up from enough emotional & mental scrapes that you’d think we were war veterans. We still laugh over the fact we have both dated a couple of the same people prior to either of us knowing one another!

There are days we have scolded each other as though we were parent and child. And days where if anyone on the outside were looking in and didn’t know better, they’d probably assume that we have some sort of virtually incestual relationship (ah the joys of SL and the misconception of SOME familial ties – relax folks…not all families screw their relatives).

Overall, this woman…the woman behind the avatar…is more a sister to me than any flesh & bone sister I could had hoped to have in my real life.  And to see her have blossomed over the past year and some change has been a true marvel. She has become more independent, more self-aware and with every breath stronger than she has been the day before.

She deserves the world and a whole lot more.  And anyone who has her in their life is damn lucky to have her in any capacity. I pity those who don’t realize (or take for granted) what a find she truly is. You will never find a more steadfast person than this crazy Alabama woman.

She has one of the biggest hearts I’ve ever seen.  And she would literally give the last coin in her purse to someone she cared about if she could.  There aren’t many people like this in any world.  And I just wanted her to know that I see her; that I love her immensely and even though she wasn’t baked in the oven nearly as long as I was, that I treasure our friendship as well as our seesterdom more than she’ll ever know.

Thank you for being my friend, Kenya. But most important thank you for being my sister.

❤ Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • Romper: ReignxFlite. – Rompim/Romper Set (former Uber item)
  • Kenya’s Details: I have absolutely no idea! I forgot to ask. LOL

Body & Makeup

  • ☘ Hair: ICONIC: Talia (former Liaison Collaborative & Saturday Sale item)
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

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Babysitting Pit Stop

I’m running late for my babysitting gig!  Let me pick up some snackies for the little ones to appease their voracious appetites.

Babysitting Pit Stop

Thank goodness Giggity’s is open 24/7! And my favorite barista made me an out of season secret menu item…for FREE. Weeee!! Off I go!

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Dress: Artizana – Vasantah LE (Russett) – Sundress (Group Gift; 250L group join fee)
  • ☘ Earring: LIVIA // Bella Earring Set
  • Necklace: MINIMAL – ABC Necklace Silver (former Saturday Sale item)

Body & Makeup

  • ☘ Hair: ICONIC:HIPSTER:LYNETTE:FATPACK:PACK
  • Head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Classic Face W001 – Mocap
  • Eyes: Izzie’s – Winter Eyes (darks) (former Fifty Linden Friday item)
  • ☘ Skin: .Q. Cynthia Skin No.2
  • Body: –Belleza– Freya V 5.2 BENTO
  • ☘ Shape: KJIm: Rebeka Shape (coming soon)
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: LIVIA::Gleam Shadow
  • ☘ Lipstick: Avada~ Imani Lipstick
  • ☘ Nails: LIVIA // Mix It Bento Nails [Ballerina]
  • ☘ Nail Polish: LIVIA // Springtime // Mix It Polish HUD’s
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

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Heart’s Hollow Home

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No matter where I roam, the heart’s hollow home knows no comfort.  It just wants to feel safe & more oft than not it never does.  It’s a shame that the embrace of one who loves a heart so big can still make it feel so empty.

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup

  • ☘ Hair: ICONIC:TAY:FATPACK:PACKAGED
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: ::SG:: CatShad22 Shadow for CATWA HEAD
  • ☘ Lipstick: LIVIA // Belle Lipstick (former The Trunk Show item)
  • Tears: CATWA Mesh Eyes Pack
  • ☘ Nails: {ZOZ} BENTO Nails v2 (wearing Coffin medium nails for Maitreya hands)
  • ☘ Nail Polish: {ZOZ} Sun Spot Polish (3pk) @ Cosmopolitan Shopping Event
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

Background & Other Information

  • Pose: my own. still work in process.
  • Additional Lighting: Lumipro

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Sunnyside Afternoon

Sunnyside Afternoon

Nothing like a warm, sunny afternoon to feel relaxed when chillin’ on your front porch.  Ahhh…

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

  • ☘ Outfit: Artizana – Lunadot (Gold) – Mesh Top + Shorts
  • Earrings: Cae :: Descend :: Earrings (former Saturday Sale)
  • 🍀 Necklace: Avada~ Sommeil de Reve Necklace (former Driftwood event item)
  • ☘ Hat: .ICONIC.ALBA\ARUNA HAT PACK (former Saturday Sale)
  • ☘ Shoes: Baetik : Zina Pumps : Fatpack

Body & Makeup

  • Hair: Opale . Danna Hair [Black/White] (former Saturday Sale item)
  • ☘ Eyeshadow: LIVIA // Envy Eyeshadow + Nails (former hunt item)
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

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Lunchtime Gab Fest

Lunchtime Gab Fest

So sufficed to say when my girls call, I sometimes will drop everything to be by their side. Especially when they are in need of a good vent.  So today’s lunch break I texted her to meet me at our favorite dive because she said she had something to tell me. We’ve now been sitting here a good 30 minutes and she keeps sipping her tea nervously. What on earth does she have to tell me?? Arrrrgh! Well…at least these fries are piping hot! YUM!

❤ Miss Kilo

DEETS

Clothing & Accessories

Body & Makeup

  • Head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face W001 – Mocap
  • Skin (head): Not Found – Jada Skin Ebony (Genus) (former Sense event item)
  • Skin (body): [theSkinnery] Maitreya Skin Applier TUMMY – ebony
  • ☘ Hair: ICONIC:HF:2018:ASHA:FATPACK (former Hair Fair item)
  • ☘ Shape: Avada~ Amalita Shape for Genus – Maitreya
  • ☘ Eyelashes: CAZIMI: 2019 May VIP Lash Appliers (250L group join)
  • ☘ Nails: {ZOZ} BENTO Nails v2 (wearing Coffin medium nails for Maitreya hands)
  • ☘ Nail Polish: {ZOZ} Natural Precious 2 Polish (3pk) (former Cosmopolitan Sales Event item)
  • All other body basics not listed can be found here.

Background & Other Information

  • Building: <MC> 2018 The Diner
  • ☘ Food: Junk Food – MacDaddy’s Fast Food Pack (former Sanarae item)

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